Saturday, March 21, 2009

Effects of losing Weight..................Just a humorous Thought

Effects of losing Weight..................Just a humorous Thought
Quite lately” losing weight” is one such hot topic that is ruling the book world. Possibly even Google database for this same query. Its like on everyone’s mind not just the entertainment industry its almost affecting every living individual on this planet.
I myself have seen girls/women conscious about their eating habits. There a calorie meter available on the internet to measure calories you had. Just type in the food details it will count the calories for you. What you eat, how you eat, when you eat is what all matters
I just can’t say that women are conscious I feel men are equally feeling the pressures. The other day I heard my boss say that “need to join Gym have put on some extra kilos”………… this actually strike me ….. What if talking could control your shape /weight?
I mean the more you talk the more you are in shape.
How much ever you speak is directly proportional to your weight or shape instantly
Let me explain this with an example.
I have a tendency to be a very good speaker in front of my Friends so whenever I am with them i am in perfect shape/maintained weight. The minute I am in front of my boss I seldomly speak (or I am a very good listener for him) so will be dull / out of shape / and with unbalanced weight.
But this can actually add as an advantage that since I am dull he might not give me more stress.
And I can actually enjoy the outcome of being a very good listener (introvert)
Can you imagine the couples around irrespective whether married or not women always speak while men try to listen….. this can actually make the whole society with lovely women and out of shape husbands and engaged men. So the women would belong to the demand category with all the liberty to dump or to choose …………
Possibly men would look in shape when they are with their friends (all boys grp) and they speak out their mind. That could be an advantage to men who look for same gender love J
The more I ponder on this the more it sounds interesting to me and maybe to all the women who always desire to loose weight……….
Thought is just a thought ………..that can take you anywhere…………
Happy Reading.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

FRIENDS

Friends ....................
You cannot choose your parents, relatives.... but you can choose your friendsMaybe this is the reason why you are so attached to them.....
Just as A year has many seasons you choose many friends ....
some are your DIE FOR FRIENDSFriends in this category need to know what is happening in each others life on a daily basisThat is not just their passion but also a possesion to be always available whenever neededShe is a friend who will give you hickups when you are not around!!!!Pray for you without any reason send you a joke at a point when you desperately need to smile.....and overall will cry with you just to make you feel better.
Some are your close friendsFriends in this category will keep you posted once in two weeks either by meeting you or through mailyou wouldnt share your day today affairs with them but will surely share an interesting gossipyou would love to take tips from this set of frd's and rely on them coz you are sure those tips are tried and tested.these set of friends are kind of your saviours when you really need them.....Just like contraceptive pills when you wanna avoid pregnancy you cant live without them..............
Some are you Tea time Buddies/Travel BuddiesIts not necessarry that these set of friends are your collegues......these are your gossip partners. you love to sip a tea while they share an interesting gossip with you.gossip could be of people you interact or celebrities that you look upon to.DIet tips that could help you loose weight or which fruit has all the proteins? or what is the new facewash you are trying to glow your skin.............these set of friends update your genral knowlege in all fields........
i have a lot of Die for friends,Close Friends and also Tea time buddies/Travel buddies they give an important aspect to your livingBhagwan har jagah nahin ho sakte is liye unkhone Maa banayi... par jab Maa thakti hain tab friends step in
Never loose your friends ................bond with them as and when possibleTime never waits for anyone.....but Friends they will wait for you for life!!!!

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Shah Ruk Khan.................All that matters
Crazy would not be the word that could describe what i feel for this MAN. Sometimes i just feel that i am at loss of words when he controls my heartYes he does... and he has been doing that for past so many years...
I never liked him when he was first launched... felt that he overdoes in everyway.
But then when eventually he started ruling... he came and he conquered.....
Be it RAJ from Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge where he is the most naughty guy who could fall for any and every woman.. but drastically changes as soon as he comes across SIMRAN.Not only does he conquer SIMRANS heart but also maintains family virtues A great Indian love story that was made from the heart and was so close to every individual who was in love ... and who wanted to be in love...I still remember when this movie was released i was in my ninth standard... every girl around me (me being in a girls school) wanted to find a RAJ...Frankly ...i fell in love with RAJ only after seeing his movie KUCH KUCH HOTA HAIN
RAHUL from KUCH KUCH HOTA HAIN defines friendship as the base of love.i was in my teen years when this movie was released ... believe me i wanted to virtually follow everything that he said in that movie"Pyaar ... Pyaar dosti hain..kyunki jab tak dosti nahin hogi tab tak pyaar kaisa ho sakta hain...."and i just could'nt stop dreaming about him since then............
RAHUL from DIL TOH PAGAL HAIN was confused about his love... never knew how to find that someone who is made for you...to this his love POOJA replies " Woh ...bataya ...woh bas ek ishaara dega aur tum samaj jaaoge...."Trust me till date i am trying to search for the bangle that POOJA wore....to give him(SRK) the love ishaara...
Shah ruk khan as AMAN from KAL HO NA HO was one character the touched my heart..........he taught us how life chnages when you see things from a dying mans perspective."Jiyo, khush raho, muskurao!!! kya pata kal ho na ho" so simple but so true...yet another fabulous dialogue
"Naina kaash mein tumhein bata sakta ki mein tumhein kitna chahta hoon ilove you i love very very much Naina aur likha hain mein aakhen band karta hoon toh tumhein dekhta hoon Aakhen kholta hoon toh tumhein dekhna chahta hoon tum paas nahin hoti tab tumhein mehsoos karta chahta hoon har pal har ghadi har waqt mere naina meri naina ko dhoonte hainisse pyaar kaho pagalpan ya meri dil ki dhadkan mere liye ek hi baat hain pyaar toh bahut log karte hain par mere jaisa pyaar koi nahin kar sakta kyunki kisi ke pass tum jo nahin ho mein tumein bhool nahin sakta ...mein tumhein bhoolna hi nahin chahtatum meri ho, mein tumhein zindagi bhar pyaar karunga marte dum tak pyaar karunga aur uske baad bhi sach!!!"
one more "Toh kya karoo maa sach keh do? jab sab kuch jaante huye bhi tum mein sach sunane ki takat nahin hai toh phir Naina kaise sun payegi kya karoo maa kya kahoo ki Zindagi ne pehli baar is dil ne kisi ko dil se chaha hain pehli baar is dil ne kisi ke liye saasein li pehli baar is dil ne kisi se mohabbat ki Naina is dil ki Mohabbat mein bahut takat hain lekin lekin yeah dil khud kamzor hain Kamzor dil usko kaise de do maa kaise ??aha hoon maa!!!"Kaise batau ki us tasweer mein jo ladki hain woh meri biwi nahin meri doctor jo din raat yeah koshish kar rahi hain ki mein kuch din aur jee sako Damn it!!Mein mein mar raha hoon maa!!!"
The whole concept of finding a love for the one you love.... So hard but thats what love is all about.
Dev from Kabhi Alvida na Kehna amswered Maya's question, "waisi Mohabbat mujhe shaadi ke baad mil jaaye toh?" and dev answered " nahin dhoondogi toh nahin milegi..."Dev's Confession to Maya"18th March 2002 us din tum mujhe pehli baar mili thi i remember the exact time us din se mujhe laga hain ki mein tumhein sadiyon se jaanta hoon kya yeah hain tumhare sawal ka jawab maybe not maybe this har roz tumhari train 4:32 par station se nikalti hain aur meri 4:21 par aur har roz mein apni train miss karta hoon ki shayad tumhare saath chand lamhe chand pal guzar sako kya yeah tumhare sawal ka jawab hain? Roz mein tumhein station par chodd kar jaata hoon par tumhari yaad mujhe nahin chodti kya yeah tumhare sawal ka jawab hain?Mind this i am a maaried man aur shayad tum bhi yeah bhool rahi hoon ki tum shaadishuda hoonhum dono shaadi shuda hain toh phir bich raat akele station par kya kar rahe hain? Bingo tumhare sawal ka yahi jawab hain ...Jawab sunti jaao.... I love you Maya and you love me too!!!"
This movie was a bit controversial, but i found it to be very realistic when considering the feelings both Maya and dev shared...both had ideal partners but still they fall for each other and that happens only in love!!!
His recent performance as Surender Sahani which potrays a Simple middle class man from Punjab who falls in love instantaneouly with Tanni and eventually marries her due to crucial circumstances......The simple logic implied "tujh mein Rab dikhta hain" you see god's presence in your love and hence you respect and worship your Love.That has been our indian marraige belief .....the presentation of this belief was surely creditable.......
The worst time would be the time between his movie release......i dont know whether he really feels the tension or not but i do feel it when his movie is duehis advertising aspect, movie release dates,production campaign..evertything is planned
His performance as KABIR KHAN in Chak De India was the most outstanding performance not only his followers but also non followers loved it...
Sometimes i feel that Shah Ruk is just like his characters
Stubborn like Dev from Devdas
Determined like Kabir Khan from Chak de India
Naughty like Raj from Dilwale Dulhaniya le jayenge
Intense like Aman from Kal ho na ho
Rude yet loving like Dev from Kabhi alvida na kehna
Hardworking like Rahul from YES BOSS
Simple as Surender Sahani in Rab ne bana di Jodi
His eyes speaks for him... many of his screen interaction with the audiences have been through his eyes... so intense and so real... perfect lip shape thats gods gift to him...and the most best thing about him is the way he thinks for women... and the way he treats them... his love for his wife is something that every individual needs to learnbeing so famous has not made any change for his feelings for his wife and children
yet he is so close to our hearts atleast mine......just one wish... wanna spent an evening with him to know him as he is coz whatever i wrote is about SRK as i think of him ......love Rajasee.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Touch of Love

Touch of Love................

He who holds your hand,holds it firmly and gently.

which defines the TOUCH OF LOVE

Love,who knows no boundary

yet tries to bind itself around people

Ironically true, and that's what defines its Virtue.

Love.... It personifies as a butterfly

which tries to fly when being searched for!

and settles down in utmost Silence.

Passion and Jealousy share a brotherhood with each other.

One defines the depth, while the other calculates love

Passion holds the feeling while Jealously unleashes the evil

Love supports both, coz that's differentiated god from the Devil

Had it not been love, words wouldn't had sounded

So Sweet, yet Cunning

So Natural, yet Hurting

So true, yet False

words reborn the thought,

Thoughts that make you ponder

He who holds your hand, firmly yet gently

Does that define LOVE????